
This has nothing to with emotions. Developing a love for God begins with Jesus. He first loved you.
Your love for God is built on obedience to His voice. Nothing else really matters. You cannot reciprocate the love of God through keeping laws, doing works, or immersing yourself in religion.
You love God by obeying His instructions regardless of the cost or whether they make any sense.
You love God by living in oneness with Him through prayer, listening for His voice and meditating on His Word.
You love God by trusting in His promises regardless of the circumstances in your life.
You love God by inviting the Holy Spirit to have authority over your life.
You love God by coming before Him with a contrite heart confessing your sins and asking Jesus to cover you with His blood.
You love God by seeking His will for your life above all else.
You love God by praising Him with a thankful heart.
You love God by abandoning yourself to Him without compromise.
The love of God is unconditional and filled with mercy and compassion. Jesus accepts you with all your character defects and desires to give you an abundant life filled with the goodness of God.